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Pity in Scripture is feeling-with that issues in act. Yahweh is named as full of pity in his own attribute-confession, his pity is paternal toward those who fear him, and his sympathy bears its sufferers personally; the same pattern is repeated in the Son who weeps, has compassion on the multitude, and stands as a high priest touched with the feeling of his people's infirmities. Human pity is built on the same model — bread shared, prisoners visited, burdens carried, weakness borne — and its negation, pitilessness, is exhibited as the deliberate stripping-off of compassion. The topic is gathered under four heads: pity of God, pity of Jesus, pity withheld from offenders, and instances. The article tracks both poles.

The Pity of God

Yahweh's pity stands at the head of his own attribute-confession. David lodges the Exodus 34 self-disclosure in the psalm: "But you, O Lord, are a God merciful and gracious, Slow to anger, and abundant in loving-kindness and truth" (Ps 86:15). Asaph plants the same disposition as a habit: "But he, being merciful, forgave [their] iniquity, and destroyed [them] not: Yes, many a time he turned his anger away, And did not stir up all his wrath" (Ps 78:38), grounded in his recognition that "they were but flesh, A wind that passes away, and does not come again" (Ps 78:39). The paternal simile gives the pity its sharpest figure: "Like a father pities his sons, So Yahweh pities those who fear him" (Ps 103:13).

Isaiah lodges divine pity in the redemption-history of the people: "In all their affliction he was afflicted, and the angel of his presence saved them: in his love and in his pity he redeemed them; and he bore them, and carried them all the days of old" (Isa 63:9). The pity is not detached observation — it is co-affliction that issues in saving, redeeming, and lifelong bearing. Hosea exhibits the same disposition under the figure of a kind owner easing the yoke of a tired animal: "I drew them with cords of man, with bands of love; and [my Speech] was to them as those who lift up the yoke from their jaws; and I laid food before them" (Hos 11:4).

The exodus-prologue states the pity in three registered acts: "I have surely seen the affliction of my people who are in Egypt, and have heard their cry by reason of their taskmasters; for I know their sorrows" (Ex 3:7). The chronicler grounds the messenger-dispatch on it: "Yahweh, the God of their fathers, sent to them by his messengers, rising up early and sending, because he had compassion on his people, and on his dwelling-place" (2Chr 36:15). Lamentations grades the pity by the divine reservoir from which it is drawn: "For though he causes grief, yet he will have compassion according to the multitude of his loving-kindnesses" (Lam 3:32).

The prophets press the pity into the post-judgment frame as well. Deuteronomy promises it for the scattered: "that then [the Speech of] Yahweh your God will turn your captivity, and have compassion on you, and will return and gather you from all the peoples" (Deut 30:3). Jeremiah extends it even to the uprooted neighbor-nations: "after that I have plucked them up, I will return [by my Speech] and have compassion on them; and I will bring them again, every man to his heritage" (Jer 12:15). Micah closes the prophetic corpus with the same posture turned toward the confessing community: "[His Speech] will again have compassion on us; he will tread our iniquities under foot; and you will cast all their sins into the depths of the sea" (Mic 7:19). James gathers the whole testimony in a one-line verdict: "the Lord is full of pity, and merciful" (Jas 5:11).

The Pity of Jesus

The Son embodies the same disposition. The shepherdless multitude draws it out: "And he came forth and saw a great multitude, and he had compassion on them, because they were as sheep not having a shepherd: and he began to teach them many things" (Mark 6:34). The widow at Nain draws it out in fewer words: "And when the Lord saw her, he had compassion on her, and said to her, Do not weep" (Luke 7:13). At Lazarus's tomb the pity reduces to its tersest form: "Jesus wept" (John 11:35), and the bystanders read it correctly as love: "The Jews therefore said, Look at how he loved him!" (John 11:36). At the leper, UPDV records a textually contested moment in which the response is registered as anger rather than pity (Mark 1:41) — the act of touching and cleansing follows in either reading, but the affective register is mixed.

Hebrews lifts the same pity into the priestly office: "we do not have a high priest who can't be touched with the feeling of our infirmities; but one who has been in all points tried like [we are, yet] without sin" (Heb 4:15). The litotes — "not unable to be touched" — affirms the touchability, and the all-points trial supplies the experiential ground for the sympathy.

The Marks of True Pity

Apostolic instruction rules pity into the corporate temper of the church. Paul fixes the affect at double-direction co-feeling: "Rejoice with those who rejoice; weep with those who weep" (Rom 12:15), and presses the strong specifically to the load-bearing form: "we who are strong ought to bear the infirmities of the weak, and not to please ourselves" (Rom 15:1). The Galatians-rule extends the load-bearing to the whole church: "Bear⁺ one another's burdens, and so you⁺ will fulfill the law of Christ" (Gal 6:2). Colossians lists the pity-disposition at the head of the elect's put-on list: "Put on therefore, as God's elect, holy and beloved, a heart of compassion, kindness, lowliness, meekness, long-suffering" (Col 3:12). Peter weaves it into a five-trait corporate temper: "all of you⁺ [be] likeminded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, humbleminded" (1Pet 3:8).

Hebrews names the felt-identification mode: "Remember those who are in bonds, as bound with them; those who are ill-treated, as being yourselves also in the body" (Heb 13:3) — pity that places itself inside the sufferer's condition rather than observing from outside. James fixes the pity-register in pure-religion terms: "to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction" (Jas 1:27). Isaiah's older catalog gives the same content as concrete acts: "Is it not to deal your bread to the hungry, and that you bring the poor who are cast out to your house? when you see the naked, that you cover him; and that you don't hide yourself from your own flesh" (Isa 58:7). Bread shared, house opened, nakedness covered, kin not avoided — the marks are not inward feeling but the practiced outward acts that name the feeling.

Examples of Pity Among Men

The narrative books exhibit the disposition in named instances. Pharaoh's daughter mounts cross-edict pity on the very class her crown has condemned: "she had compassion on him, and said, This is one of the Hebrews' children" (Ex 2:6). The Ephraimite heads convert war-spoil into care for their Judahite captives: "the men who have been mentioned by name rose up, and took the captives, and with the spoil clothed all who were naked among them, and arrayed them, and gave them sandals, and gave them to eat and to drink, and anointed them, and carried all the feeble of them on donkeys, and brought them to Jericho" (2Chr 28:15) — a costly self-expense paid out of plunder. The country itself weeps over David's forced exile: "all the country wept with a loud voice, and all the people passed over: the king also himself passed over the brook Kidron" (2Sam 15:23).

Job fires off his own former-days sympathy as a defense: "Didn't I weep for him who was in trouble? Wasn't my soul grieved for the needy?" (Job 30:25), and recalls a pair of pity-acts: "The blessing of him who was ready to perish came upon me; And I caused the widow's heart to sing for joy" (Job 29:13). His three companions cross great distances to reach him: they "made an appointment together to come to bemoan him and to comfort him" (Job 2:11). David puts the same pity-posture in the first person: "I behaved myself as though it had been my companion or my brother: I bowed down mourning, as one who bewails his mother" (Ps 35:14).

The Lukan parable presses the example into a single Samaritan: when he saw the wounded man, "he was moved with compassion, and came to him, and bound up his wounds, pouring on [them] oil and wine; and he set him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn, and took care of him" (Luke 10:33-34). Many of the Jews come to console Martha and Mary "concerning their brother" (John 11:19); a great multitude of women "bewailed and lamented" Jesus on the road to the cross (Luke 23:27); and the Hebrews' hearers "had compassion on those who were in bonds, and took joyfully the spoiling of [their] possessions" (Heb 10:34) — feeling-with paid for in their own loss.

Pitilessness

The opposite pole stands as the active stripping-off of pity rather than mere absence of feeling. Amos lays the indictment on Edom: "because he pursued his brother with the sword, and had cast off all pity, and his anger tore perpetually, and he kept his wrath forever" (Amos 1:11) — the brother-against-brother sword-pursuit paired with the deliberate discard of the entire pity-class. Job's catalog of the wicked grades it at extremity: "They pluck the fatherless from the breast, And take a pledge of the poor" (Job 24:9) — the nursing infant separated at the very point of maternal feeding.

The sage names the everyday form. Pitilessness is the cheerful song pressed on a grieving heart: "[As] vinegar on lye, and [as] smoke for the eyes, So is he who sings songs to a heavy heart" (Pr 25:20). It is also the under-supplied noble who still extracts from the poor: "A needy [noble] man who oppresses the poor Is [like] a sweeping rain which leaves no food" (Pr 28:3) — the shared want that should have produced sympathy is instead pressed into stripping the still-weaker class.

The Psalter exhibits both the sufferer's experience of pitilessness and its hostile-provision form. David's enemies invert the pity-posture he had shown them: "But in my adversity they rejoiced, and gathered themselves together: The abjects gathered themselves together against me, and I didn't know [it]; They tore me, and did not cease" (Ps 35:15). And the very pity-occasions of feeding-the-hungry and giving-drink-to-the-thirsty are turned into active injury: "They gave me also gall for my food; And in my thirst they gave me vinegar to drink" (Ps 69:21). The parable of the Samaritan stations the same pole opposite the example of pity: "in like manner a Levite also, when he came to the place, and saw him, passed by on the other side" (Luke 10:32) — the unmoved passage, repeated by two religious classes, registered as a shared practice of want-of-pity.

Pity Withheld from Offenders

Deuteronomy commands a specific class of cases in which the eye is forbidden to pity. The herem against the Canaanite peoples: "you will consume all the peoples that Yahweh your God will deliver to you; your eye will not pity them: neither will you serve their gods; for that will be a snare to you" (Deut 7:16). The apostate enticer, even kin: "you will not consent to him, nor listen to him; neither will your eye pity him, neither will you spare, neither will you conceal him" (Deut 13:8). The murderer in the city of refuge: "Your eye will not pity him, but you will put away the innocent blood from Israel, that it may go well with you" (Deut 19:13), with the lex talionis appended: "And your eyes will not pity; soul for soul, eye for eye, tooth for tooth, hand for hand, foot for foot" (Deut 19:21). And the woman who seizes the genitals in the brothers' fight: "then you will cut off her hand, your eye will have no pity" (Deut 25:11-12). The same pity that names Yahweh's own disposition is, in these specific judicial cases, not to be the operative affect of the magistrate.