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Scripture treats the spoken word as weight-bearing. A word is not a vapor that passes; it lodges in the hearer, marks the speaker, and is answerable. The wisdom books take the most sustained interest in this — Proverbs, Ecclesiastes, and Sirach circle the same set of disciplines from many angles — and the apostolic writers, especially James, take up the same line.

The Weight of a Word

Speech is presented as load-bearing on its speaker. "You are snared with the words of your mouth, You are taken with the words of your mouth" (Pr 6:2). Sirach gives the principle in two halves: "Glory and shame are in the hand of one who speaks rashly; And the tongue of a man is his fall" (Sir 5:13); and again, "Good and evil, life and death; But the tongue rules over them altogether" (Sir 37:18). The wise are conscious of this weight: "Bind up your silver and gold; And make a balance and weight for your words" (Sir 28:25). The fool is not: "A fool also multiplies words: [yet] man doesn't know what will be" (Ec 10:14).

The prayer that recognises this weight is Ps 19:14 — "Let the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart Be acceptable in your sight, O Yahweh, my rock, and my redeemer."

Restraint and Timing

The wisdom literature returns repeatedly to the discipline of restraint. "He who guards his mouth keeps his soul; [But] he who opens his lips wide will have destruction" (Pr 13:3). "Whoever keeps his mouth and his tongue Keeps his soul from troubles" (Pr 21:23). "He who spares his words has knowledge; And he who is of a cool spirit is a man of understanding" (Pr 17:27). "Even a fool, when he holds his peace, is counted wise; When he shuts his lips, he is [esteemed as] prudent" (Pr 17:28). "In the multitude of words transgression does not cease; But he who refrains his lips does wisely" (Pr 10:19). "Don't be⁺ as the horse, or as the mule, which have no understanding; Whose trappings must be bit and bridle to hold them in" (Ps 32:9).

Timing is its own discipline. Ecclesiastes makes it explicit: "a time to keep silent, and a time to speak" (Ec 3:7). Sirach amplifies: "He hides his words until the [proper] time, And the lips of the faithful will declare his understanding" (Sir 1:24); "Do not return an answer before you hear; And do not speak out in the middle of [someone] talking" (Sir 11:8); "The wise man is silent until the [proper] time, But the arrogant and the scorner take no note of the time" (Sir 20:7). And inversely, withholding can also be a fault: "Do not withhold a word in due season, And do not hide your wisdom" (Sir 4:23). What makes the difference is fitness: "A man has joy in the answer of his mouth; And a word in due season, how good it is!" (Pr 15:23). "A word fitly spoken Is [like] apples of gold in network of silver" (Pr 25:11). Out of season the same word is "the fat tail of a sheep eaten without salt" (Sir 20:19).

The Hasty Word and the Fool's Mouth

Speed is a frequent diagnostic of foolishness. "Do you see a man who is in a hurry in his words? There is more hope of a fool than of him" (Pr 29:20). "A fool utters all his anger; But a wise man keeps it back and stills it" (Pr 29:11). "For a dream comes with a multitude of business, and a fool's voice with a multitude of words" (Ec 5:3). "The words of a wise man's mouth are gracious; but the lips of a fool will swallow up himself. The beginning of the words of his mouth is foolishness; and the end of his mouth is mischievous madness" (Ec 10:12-13). Sirach: "A wise man makes himself beloved with few words, But the pleasantries of fools are wasted" (Sir 20:13); "He who is abundant in word is abhorred, And he who takes authority [to speak] is hated" (Sir 20:8); "The discourse of a fool is like a burden on a journey, But upon the lips of the wise grace is found" (Sir 21:16); "The lips of babblers [only] repeat the things that are not theirs, But the words of the wise are weighed in the balance" (Sir 21:25). The prayer of Sir 22:27 follows from all of this: "O that one would set a watch over my mouth, And a seal of shrewdness upon my lips, That I do not fall by means of them, And that my tongue does not destroy me."

Job's friends draw the same diagnosis on each other. "How long will you speak these things? And [how long] will the words of your mouth be [like] a mighty wind?" (Job 8:2). "Shouldn't the multitude of words be answered? And should a man full of talk be justified?" (Job 11:2). "Will vain words have an end?" (Job 16:3). "Oh that you⁺ would altogether hold your⁺ peace! And it would be your⁺ wisdom" (Job 13:5). And Yahweh's own answer to Job opens with the same charge: "Who is this that darkens counsel By words without knowledge?" (Job 38:2).

The Soft Answer

A whole sub-tradition concerns gentle speech as power. "A soft answer turns away wrath; But a grievous word stirs up anger" (Pr 15:1). "Pleasant words are [as] a honeycomb, Sweet to the soul, and health to the bones" (Pr 16:24). "By long forbearing is a ruler persuaded, And a soft tongue breaks the bone" (Pr 25:15). "There is one who speaks rashly like the piercings of a sword; But the tongue of the wise is health" (Pr 12:18). The wife of Pr 31 is described in this register: "She opens her mouth with wisdom; And the law of kindness is on her tongue" (Pr 31:26). Sirach agrees on the gift of the gentle word: "A sweet mouth grows a friend; And graceful lips will greet [saying], Peace" (Sir 6:5); "Does not the dew make the burning heat to cease? So a word changes [the character of] a gift. For there is a good word which is better than a gift" (Sir 18:16-17). The Servant of Isa 50 is given exactly this kind of speech: "The Sovereign Yahweh has given me the tongue of those who are taught, that I may know how to sustain with words him who is weary" (Isa 50:4). Job 4:4 names the same gift in its absence-context: "Your words have upheld him who was falling, And you have made firm the feeble knees."

The words quieted in this register are not weak words. "The words of the wise heard in quiet are better than the cry of him who rules among fools" (Ec 9:17). "The words of the wise are as goads; and as nails well fastened are [the words of] the masters of assemblies, [which] are given from one shepherd" (Ec 12:11).

Lying Lips, Smooth Speech

Scripture treats deceitful speech as a category distinct from a hasty word — speech that is calculated to harm. "He who hides hatred is of lying lips; And he who utters a slander is a fool" (Pr 10:18). The smooth talker conceals war: "His mouth was smooth as butter, But his heart was war: His words were softer than oil, Yet they were drawn swords" (Ps 55:21). "For there is no faithfulness in their mouth ... Their throat is an open tomb; They flatter with their tongue" (Ps 5:9). The same warning runs into the New Testament: "by their smooth and fair speech they beguile the hearts of the blameless" (Ro 16:18); "This I say, that no one may delude you⁺ with persuasiveness of speech" (Cl 2:4); "Let no man deceive you⁺ with empty words: for because of these things the wrath of God comes on the sons of disobedience" (Eph 5:6); "in greed they will with feigned words make merchandise of you⁺" (2Pe 2:3). Pharaoh's instinct in Ex 5:9 is the inverse — he treats Israel's appeal as fraudulent: "don't let them regard lying words." The prayer of the righteous goes the other way: "Keep your tongue from evil, And your lips from speaking guile" (Ps 34:13). Of the Servant: "neither was guile found in his mouth" (1Pe 2:22). Of the priest of Mal 2:6: "The law of truth was in his mouth, and unrighteousness was not found in his lips."

Slander, Talebearing, and the Whisperer

Talebearing has its own line of condemnation. "You will not go up and down as a talebearer among your relatives" (Le 19:16). "He who goes about as double-tongued reveals secrets; But he who is of a faithful spirit conceals a matter" (Pr 11:13). "He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; Therefore don't company with him who opens his lips wide" (Pr 20:19). "He who covers a transgression seeks love; But he who harps on a matter separates best friends" (Pr 17:9). Two Proverbs use the same haunting line about the whisperer: "The words of a whisperer are as dainty morsels, And they go down into the innermost parts" (Pr 18:8; cf. Pr 26:22). "A perverse man scatters abroad strife; And a whisperer separates best friends" (Pr 16:28). "For lack of wood the fire goes out; And where there is no whisperer, contention ceases" (Pr 26:20). "The north wind brings forth rain: So does a backbiting tongue an angry countenance" (Pr 25:23). "Whoever secretly slanders his fellow man, I will destroy him" (Ps 101:5). "Take⁺ heed every one of his fellow man, and don't trust⁺ in any brother; for every brother will completely supplant, and every fellow man will go about with slanders" (Je 9:4). "He who does not slander with his tongue, Nor does evil to his friend, Nor takes up a reproach against his fellow man" — that is the speaker who may sojourn on Yahweh's holy hill (Ps 15:3).

Sirach is unusually severe on the slanderous tongue, treating it almost as a power: "The third tongue has shaken many, And has dispersed them from nation to nation; Even strong cities it has overthrown" (Sir 28:14); "The stroke of a whip makes a mark, But the stroke of a tongue breaks bones" (Sir 28:17); "Many have fallen by the edge of the sword, But not so many as have fallen by the tongue" (Sir 28:18). Hence the counsel: "See that you hedge your possession about with thorns; And for your mouth make a door and a bar" (Sir 28:24); and the warning, "Do not fight with a man of tongue; And you will not put wood on a fire" (Sir 8:3).

The Tongue in James

James gathers the wisdom tradition into a single Christian summary. The mark of useful religion is bridled speech: "If any man thinks himself to be religious, while he doesn't bridle his tongue but deceives his heart, this man's religion is useless" (Jas 1:26). The mark of completion is unstumbling speech: "For in many things we all stumble. If any doesn't stumble in word, the same is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also" (Jas 3:2). The danger is named in Jas 3:6: "And the tongue is a fire: the world of iniquity among our members is the tongue, which defiles the whole body, and sets on fire the wheel of nature, and is set on fire by hell." And the brotherly application: "Don't speak one against another, brothers" (Jas 4:11). 1 Peter takes up the Psalm Sirach also echoes — "Let him refrain his tongue from evil, And his lips that they speak no guile" (1Pe 3:10) — and adds, "Putting away therefore all wickedness, and all guile, and hypocrisies, and envies, and all evil speakings" (1Pe 2:1). Sirach had already worked the same image: "the discipline of the mouth, He who keeps [it] will not be ensnared; But the sinner is ensnared by his lips, And the fool stumbles through his mouth" (Sir 23:7-8).

Edifying Speech

Paul makes positive speech a deliberate Christian discipline rather than only a restraint. The standing rule: "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your⁺ mouth, but such as is good for edifying as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear" (Eph 4:29). Its companion is bitterness's removal: "Let all bitterness, and wrath, and anger, and clamor, and railing, be put away from you⁺" (Eph 4:31). The same is repackaged in Colossians: "Let your⁺ speech be always with grace, seasoned with salt, that you⁺ may know how you⁺ ought to answer each one" (Cl 4:6). Within the assembly, edifying speech takes more concrete forms: "Let the word of Christ dwell in you⁺ richly; in all wisdom teaching and admonishing one another with psalms [and] hymns [and] spiritual songs" (Cl 3:16); "speaking one to another in psalms and hymns and spiritual songs" (Eph 5:19); "he who prophesies speaks to men edification, and exhortation, and consolation" (1Co 14:3); "let us follow after things which make for peace, and things by which we may edify one another" (Ro 14:19). Mal 3:16 had already named that fellowship: "Then those who feared Yahweh spoke one with another; and Yahweh listened, and heard."

Outside the assembly, the same discipline is applied to teaching: "preach the word; be urgent in season, out of season; reprove, rebuke, exhort, with all longsuffering and teaching" (2Ti 4:2); "Hold the pattern of sound words which you have heard from me" (2Ti 1:13); "sound speech, that can't be condemned" (Ti 2:8); "These things speak and exhort and reprove with all authority" (Ti 2:15). Hebrews calls the church to mutual exhortation: "exhort one another day by day, so long as it is called Today; lest any one of you⁺ be hardened by the deceitfulness of sin" (He 3:13); and "exhorting [one another]; and even more, as you⁺ see the day drawing near" (He 10:25). With longsuffering: "And we exhort you⁺, brothers, admonish the disorderly, encourage the fainthearted, support the weak, be longsuffering toward all" (1Th 5:14).

Reproof

Reproof is the costlier face of edifying speech, and the wisdom books defend it. "A rebuke enters deeper into one who has understanding Than a hundred stripes into a fool" (Pr 17:10). "Better is open rebuke Than love that is hidden" (Pr 27:5). "He who rebukes man will afterward find more favor Than he who flatters with the tongue" (Pr 28:23). "[As] an earring of gold, and an ornament of fine gold, [So is] a wise reprover on an obedient ear" (Pr 25:12). Conversely, "He who being often reproved hardens his neck Will suddenly be destroyed" (Pr 29:1). The flatterer is dangerous: "A [noble] man who flatters his fellow man Spreads a net for his steps" (Pr 29:5). David asks for reproof as a kindness: "Let the righteous strike me [it will be] a kindness; And let him reprove me, [it will be as] oil on the head" (Ps 141:5). "It is better to hear the rebuke of the wise, than for a man to hear the song of fools" (Ec 7:5). Sirach handles the same theme as a friendship discipline: "Reprove a friend, that he do no evil, And if he has done anything, that he does not do it again" (Sir 19:13); "Reprove your neighbor, before you threaten" (Sir 19:17); "How good it is to reprove Rather than to be angry" (Sir 20:2); but he qualifies, "There is a reproof that is uncalled for, And [there is] he who is silent but wise" (Sir 20:1). Jesus' instruction follows the same pattern: "if your brother sins, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him" (Lu 17:3). Paul orders the wider application: "have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness, and even better, reprove them as well" (Eph 5:11).

Vain Words

Set against edifying speech is the discipline of refusing speech that has no profit. "In all labor there is profit; But the talk of the lips [tends] only to poverty" (Pr 14:23). "they are not to strive about words, to no profit, to the subverting of those who hear" (2Ti 2:14). "But shun profane babblings: for they will proceed further in ungodliness" (2Ti 2:16). "For there are also many unruly men, vain talkers and deceivers" (Ti 1:10). 1 Cor 14 makes the same demand of public speech in the assembly: intelligible utterance is better than abundance — "unless you⁺ utter by the tongue speech easy to understand, how will it be known what is spoken? For you⁺ will be speaking into the air" (1Co 14:9); "in the church I would rather speak five words with my understanding, that I might instruct others also, than ten thousand words in a tongue" (1Co 14:19). Sirach: "But he who hates talk has the less malice" (Sir 19:6); "Sum up your speech, say much in little, Be as one who knows and can keep silent" (Sir 32:8); "Prepare your speech, and so let yourself be heard" (Sir 33:4). Paul claims a different form of vehicle for speech: "Having therefore such a hope, we use great boldness of speech" (2Co 3:12) — paired against "So then have I become your⁺ enemy, by telling you⁺ the truth?" (Gal 4:16). And there is a class of words altogether outside ordinary discourse — "he was caught up into Paradise, and heard unspeakable words, which it is not lawful for a man to utter" (2Co 12:4).

Mouth of the Righteous

The reverse image is the speaking life of the righteous. "The mouth of the righteous talks of wisdom, And his tongue speaks justice" (Ps 37:30). "The mouth of the righteous is a fountain of life" (Pr 10:11). "She opens her mouth with wisdom; And the law of kindness is on her tongue" (Pr 31:26). "They will speak of the glory of your kingdom, And talk of your power" (Ps 145:11). Sirach 4:24 — "For by speech wisdom is made known, And understanding by the answer of the tongue" — is the positive complement to all the warnings. To the same end Sirach offers the prayer: "Blessed is the common man whose mouth has not grieved him; And whose heart would not bring judgment on him" (Sir 14:1).

The Words of Christ

Among the spoken words scripture records, the words of Jesus are framed as a class apart. "Never did man so speak" (Jn 7:46); "they were astonished at his teaching; for his word was with authority" (Lu 4:32); "they ... wondered at the words of grace which proceeded out of his mouth" (Lu 4:22). The words themselves carry the gift they describe: "It is the spirit that gives life; the flesh profits nothing: the words that I have spoken to you⁺ are spirit, and are life" (Jn 6:63); "Lord, to whom shall we go? you have the word of eternal life" (Jn 6:68). They abide: "Heaven and earth will pass away: but my words will definitely not pass away" (Mr 13:31). They are the criterion at the last day: "the speech that I spoke, the same will judge him in the last day" (Jn 12:48); even though, in the meantime, "I didn't come to judge the world, but to save the world" (Jn 12:47). Loving Jesus is described as keeping his words: "If a man loves me, he will keep my speech" (Jn 14:23); "He who does not love me does not keep my words: and the speech which you⁺ hear is not mine, but the Father's who sent me" (Jn 14:24); "If a man keeps my speech, he will never see death" (Jn 8:51). Apostolic teaching is then measured by the same words: "If any man teaches a different doctrine, and does not consent to sound words, [even] the words of our Lord Jesus Christ" (1Ti 6:3).

This is what the apostles end up holding out: a "word of life" (Php 2:16) that the Christian carries into the world, and a settled hope that the prayer of Ps 19:14 — that the words of mouth and the meditation of heart be acceptable in the sight of Yahweh — has become a possibility, not just a wish.